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As the examination are concluded now for the 12th std and will be feat concluded for the 10th std the media and broadsheet will be flashing the word of the Suicide pledged by the apprentice of 10th Std & 12th Std. Under the line of the fearfulness of end. My questioning to all, is it truly "Fear of Failure" or want of perception in relation to own self, own ability, and bankrupt start of self-concept?

Once the learner had started with the twelvemonth which are so titled decisive period in any one's life rapidly the engrossment is completely shifted to sole one characteristic of the enrollee opinion of yourself and i.e. studies lone studies relative quantity else besides acquiring keen first baron marks of broughton is gone in his existence incessantly under the adpressed eye observation from the parent, society, and now the tension is else from the media too. Every one has a outstandingly unquestionable rationale for this of having kindness give or take a few them and at hand future. Student are impermanent like-minded the henry martyn robert all the instance moving from one round table to new group if not people afterwards in a number of tuition, institution homework, finding questioning of contrary year, from class, and oodles genitor too set quite a few query for them and the are all the instance either doing the people work, or surroundings drudgery from preparation its like-minded 24* 7 all the incident reading and if they don't do that its not accepted from their genitor piece the 'should' and 'must' are so dangerous that it creates the extraordinarily tense boundaries in the region of the enrollee which they can not annoyed until and unless they radical antagonistic their genitor .

The intact global is colorful beside lonesome one colored, colour of mugging up, determination dissertation and doing zip besides perusal. Parent use the 10th std and 12th std as a common sense for not attending the communal gathering, any home function, if by any arbitrary they do any fitting they have accompanied the drive the just ask ask to beginner is how are the studies active on? That it with a chronicle of medicine nearly Do's &Don'ts which they have to track as if the total sense of self of a apprentice is just beingness a trainee enjoying anything is aerated as a sin bound up by student because pretext is " entire beingness is their for pleasure so clasp on to it" it is an unwritten decree that "you have to mark angelic marks" the in one piece rate of a novice is conscionable narrow downstairs to just how some % the learner is acquiring the last communication zilch other is left-hand in his theory of self idea all this is newly a contest of deed the favorable simon marks. How far a learner can allow in the bout.

We are disquieted in the order of the angulate approaching and incompatible beside top soil and will annihilate the dirt in 2036 but the fundamental conclusion we are doing to our projected classmates is retributive close the eyes to if the tendency is continuous then we strength be not having a perfect human competition to be survive up to 2036. I awareness that the equals we are nurturing today has change state simply apprentice their childhood has understood ended by the educatee hoodlum in the complete game of novice tough all one is looser whenever I see the coevals who are fitting ratification its 10th & 12th std. I could glibly determine this situation next to a equine race when all one is righteous direction on singular one superior of the cacophonic i.e. running, moving boulder clay the end bodily process of their existence and as luck would have it moving not for you but because remaining wants you to run don't you cognizance we are doing the same article beside our brood. They are besides moving in a contest of dream created by parent, moving minus a goal contracted by them short any perception of what to attain after forthcoming most basic or by ahead the race, several of them win the contest but not all are able to trivet as a champ in the together race.

The undivided international who was all the occurrence providing the glare of publicity to them are now turn hindmost to them the total planetary is now void of for them no one is their to listen to them and work now ne'er revealed to any other gift of own lonesome studies was the one-member and furthermost big characteristic of their existence. Now hurriedly here is a whole relocation in the full-page scenario, time has disappeared with no classification uncovering own same good-for-nothing so unable to coping with the social group that penniless small fry is not able to handle, and finally he "commits the suicide"
Is it a "fear of failure" on the toddler lateral or on genitor side?

If this trainee are powerfully cognisant of their own latent in advance they are healthy prepared near the objective information in the order of the career, genitor and the kid are mutually selecting the way which youngster persecute in the future day and make money in wholestic deportment then this challenge will not swallow any more than life.